The reason why we struggle with insecurity is…

The reason why we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind the scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.
-Steven Furtick

When you may think that others are better than you are in certain ways, remember that you may be seeing the image they portray to others. Everyone has their own fears and weaknesses — so stop comparing yourself to others. Such a comparison may not be useful if you evaluate yourself based on self-perception and judge the other person based on superficiality.

Most people do not listen with the intent…

Most people do not listen with the intent to understand. Most people listen with the intent to reply.
-Stephen Covey

Ask yourself if you’re truly listening to others or if you’re being distracted by your own chatter. Listening means staying silent to give others a chance to talk, soaking it in, then responding if needed.